Bash The Trolls

In response yet again…

“Anonymous said...
Candy, i don't know you or pretend to, your letter to liam was horrible but i understand why you wrote it....because someone you love was being attacked....well thats why liam wrote his letter too, if you can understand that then maybe you two can sort out your differences, all you know of jay is the few years you have been together and what he has told you, all liam know's of his mother is his whole life so he will always believe her....maybe neither of them is always 100% honest all of the time, and perspective will alter truth regardless.”

I respect Liam for standing up for his mother, but I also respect and
agree with Candy’s response to him. He needed to read that, Liam was in the wrong to write those words about my parents, his grandparents.
I have no secrets from Candy, she knows everything about me, as I know everything about her.

“Jason are your unresolved issues now resolved? i would doubt it. perhaps in future you would learn that posting thoughts which are bound to give offence to others will serve no purpose other than to create bad feeling and more issues.
Liam, you have every right to defend those you love, when people say you should be treated as an adult and then respond like childern themselves you should take no notice of them and what they say.”

To be honest with you, the bad blood between my sister and I have been brewing for a very long time, since I was a teenager, which will never be resolved.
I need to clarify this right now, This Blog is called “Dawn Mage”
It is my web journal where I post my personal thoughts on every subject under the sun, including my thoughts on people.
If those people read this blog and see offence, then they really should not read it, I’ve not asked anybody to come to my journal who did not want to read it in the first place.
Does the whole responding like a child mean you as well, as you have been very childish with your insults.
(If this is the same Annon who has been insulting me?)

“Anonymous said...
jason most of your blog is a lie”
Do I have to say this again? When have I lied? and what lies are there on this blog?
“i think you really do believe what your writing, and believe your memory's of past events happened the way you remember. “

Of course I believe in what I write, as it is the truth.

“there is no point in me having a conversation with you, slagging you off, even posting anymore”

Then why are you on here slagging me off, and posting lies about me?

“you are wrong but you will never see it, your world is a fantasy but maybe thats for the best.”

What fantasy world? When have I ever said I lived in a fantasy world?

“if you can't face your own mistakes and guilt in any other way than to transfer them to others then fine...but why not keep it to yourself? “

I do face my guilt and my mistakes, when I make them.

“oh and i'm not james...so don't fall out with him over this, it seems you posted something less than nice on sj's blog once when you thought she had said something?”

Fair enough, I already know it’s not James, and I already have a very good idea on who this is.
As for SJ, that matter is between the two of us and nobody else.

Oh goody my sister…

“Melanie said...
He didn't however threaten you and mum, for one thing, she wouldn't have pput up with that sort of treatment.”

As a matter of fact Melanie, he did.
Why do you think we changed our phone number and went ex-directory? It was because he used to ring us up and hurl vile abuse down the phone at myself and mum.

“Yes his wife did come to the house, no I did not hide upstairs I was in the kitchen with her and mum.”

Bullshit, you was upstairs with dad in the living room, even he did not want to get involved.

“You were no older than Liam at the time, maybe you didn't understand the world of adults and saw things differently.”

So does that mean that Liam sees things different, and the stuff he says is not true?
Plus Mel, I remember everything and I still used to see Gary around the shopping centre and he told me the rest of the story.

“You did not take mum to her chemo sessions the hospital arranged transport for her.”

They in fact stopped the transport van for mum, so I helped her.

“Yes I smoked weed, so have you.”

You have also done Class A drugs as well Melanie.

“Yes I squatted briefly, I needed a roof over my head when I was homeless.”

You made yourself homeless by not paying the rent, Mum and Dad offered you a roof over your head by living at home.

“Yes I stole food as I was starving unlike you stealing videos from blockbuster!”

Melanie there was a period when after mum had died, I had no food for nearly a week, I never stole food, I asked for your help and you refused, even when I had no Gas, Electric or any food, you said no.
And as for Blockbusters, I do believe that the videos I acquired
All went to you and Martin. And I did not see you complaining at the time.

“I did send mum money to get taxi's to see him in the nursing home”

Bollocks!

“The first I knew of dad being in hospital was when the ward sister rang me to tell me that he was fading fast and although she had tried to contact you and mum, no-one had turned up.”

The nursing home informed mum of dad going into the hospital, mum informed me because I was not living at home at the time, mum also informed you and you rang me at Virgin when I was at work to tell me. We both visited dad in hospital every day that week.
We were told that he had not got long to live and mum did ring you up to tell you that, the next day we received a phone call from you saying that he passed away.
Mum was angry at the ward sister for not informing her of her husband’s death, and the ward sister informed both of us that you had been in contact and told her that you was the primary carer and you needed to be informed first.
Melanie why do you lie about things like this? Do you have gaps in your memory or do you not think that I remember everything?
I was there, you was not Melanie.

“You didn't organise dad's funeral, the RAF did as they were paying for it.”

The RAF did pay for the most of the funeral bill, so did the benefits agency. And I organised everything else Melanie, including getting the british legion to play the trumpets.
Yet again, where were you?

“When mum died I came over as I was upset and to see how you were, it wasn't for a few hours as we all stayed overnight.”

You in fact stayed overnight at mum’s funeral not the day after she died.

“I did not cry crocodile tears,”

It was not me in fact that said that, but my neighbour Doreen, who was a close friend of mum’s and the claim was substantiated by Vicki, Carl, and Rose.

“I'm sorry that Vicky was "disgusted with me" at mum's funeral. I am surprised at this info as she was very nice and seemed genuine when I talked to her.”

Bollocks! She left the wake as to not cause a scene.
She wanted to bitchslap you for the way you behaved at mum’s funeral.
Vicki was well liked by my mum and she looked upon her as a daughter.

“The most despicable thing about all this is your accusation that I wanted to flush mums ashes down the toilet. How dare you! That has got to be the worst lie you have ever told, I would never have said that about anyone let alone my mum.”

Both you and Martin said that, even in front of Liam.
You even said, “she would find her way to the north sea via the toilet.”

“As for not wanting family photos for Liam, I have loads already that mum had given me some time ago,”

When I talked to you on the phone asking if you wanted any photo’s you said “that you did not want any photo’s and you didn’t really care”.

You really are such a sick and twisted bitch. More twisted than I realised considering the information that has come to light recently about you and your family.